Before my accident, I kept saying the same thing to myself: I want to be in the best shape of my life when I turn 60. I meant it. I was hiking, walking, going to the gym. I was building strength in my body and imagining a future where I kept getting stronger, not weaker. Then the accident happened. I was still 59. I turned 60 in a hospital bed. I lost a leg. I fractured my other leg in multiple places. I broke ribs. I had vertebrae injuries. My body went into heart and kidney failure. Pain became constant, not occasional. Everything I thought I was building… was suddenly gone. And for a long time, I couldn’t understand something: If I was focusing on health, strength, and vitality… how did I end up here? I used to think maybe I did something wrong. Maybe I thought wrong. Maybe I “manifested” the wrong thing. But I’m starting to see something different now. Life isn’t a formula where good thoughts guarantee safe outcomes. Bodies exist in a world where accidents happen, s...
Do you ever find yourself watching others, perhaps those you deem less capable, enjoying greater success or material possessions, and wonder... 'Why not me? The sting of comparison. The weight of feeling overlooked. The frustration of watching others attain what seems so out of reach. It's a familiar ache, a question that lingers: 'Why not me?' In this post, we'll explore the roots of this feeling and, more importantly, how to transform it into a catalyst for your own growth and fulfillment. Perceived Unfairness: A sense that life is not just or equitable. A feeling that rewards are not distributed based on merit. Comparison and Envy: A tendency to compare your own circumstances to those of others. Feelings of envy or resentment towards those who seem to have more. Questioning Your Own Worth: A sense of questioning your own value or deservingness. A feeling that you are being overlooked or undervalued. Frustration with the System: A feeling that the world is not f...