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So… Is Your Higher Self the Same as Source?

By The Artful Woman
  Not exactly. Think of it like this: Source is the origin —pure consciousness, God/Goddess/Divine Light, whatever you want to call it. It’s the everything-and-nothing energy from which all things come. Your Higher Self is your personal bridge to Source. It’s your soul in its purest form , untainted by fear, ego, or human distortion. Your Higher Self is you , just on the zoomed-out level —the version of you that remembers the full story, all lifetimes, all lessons, all missions. So: Source is the sun. Your Higher Self is the sunbeam that still holds its essence but is uniquely you . Is Your Higher Self Your Soul? Pretty much— but here's the nuance: Your soul is eternal. It’s the part of you that has lived countless lives. Your Higher Self is like the fully awakened version of your soul —the one not currently squeezed into a human body trying to pay bills and avoid family drama. When you're in human form, you're kind of like the tip of the i...
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Mastering Meditation: Embrace Distractions and Deepen Your Practice

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By The Artful Woman

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Meditation often conjures images of serene stillness and unwavering focus. Yet, for many, the reality includes a flurry of thoughts, fleeting moments of clarity, and the challenge of maintaining concentration. If you've ever felt disheartened by a wandering mind during meditation, know that you're not alone—and that these experiences are a natural part of the journey.​

1. Acknowledge and Return—Without Judgment

Distractions are not failures; they're opportunities to strengthen your focus. When a thought arises and pulls you away from your meditation, gently acknowledge it—perhaps thinking, "There's a thought"—and then return your attention to your chosen focal point, such as your breath or a visualization. This act of returning is like exercising a muscle; each redirection enhances your mental resilience.​

2. Anchor Yourself to Sensations

Engaging your senses can ground your practice:​

  • Body Sensations: If you're visualizing a ball of light, focus on the accompanying feelings—warmth, tingling, or pressure. These sensations can serve as anchors, bringing you back when your mind drifts.​

  • Breath: Your breath is a constant, accessible anchor. When distractions arise, take a few deep breaths, paying close attention to the sensation of air moving in and out of your body.​

3. Break It into Manageable Segments

Long meditation sessions can be daunting. Instead, aim for short, focused intervals:​

  • Short Bursts: Concentrate on your visualization or breath for a few seconds at a time. If your mind wanders, gently bring it back.​

  • Segmented Visualization: Divide your visualization into parts. For example, focus on visualizing light in one area of your body before moving to the next.​

4. Adopt a Gentle, Playful Approach

Approach meditation with curiosity and kindness:​

  • Don't Take It Too Seriously: It's okay if your meditation isn't perfect. Embrace the process without self-judgment.​

  • Imagine It's a Game: View your practice as a game of gently guiding your attention back, fostering a light-hearted attitude that can enhance consistency.​

5. Practice Regularly, Even Briefly

Consistency trumps duration:​

  • Short, Daily Practices: Even a few minutes each day can be more beneficial than sporadic longer sessions.​

  • Don't Give Up: Developing meditation skills takes time and patience. Celebrate small victories and persist through challenges.​

Key Takeaway:

Experiencing moments of clarity during meditation indicates your capability. The goal is to gradually increase the frequency and duration of these moments. Remember, each distraction is an opportunity to strengthen your focus.​

Call to Action:

Ready to deepen your meditation practice and explore various techniques tailored to your needs? I offer personalized coaching sessions focusing on methods like visualization, breathwork, and mindfulness. Let's embark on this journey together to enhance your well-being and inner peace.​

Contact me today to schedule your session and take the first step toward a more centered and mindful life. Artful Living Coaching 

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