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So… Is Your Higher Self the Same as Source?

By The Artful Woman
  Not exactly. Think of it like this: Source is the origin —pure consciousness, God/Goddess/Divine Light, whatever you want to call it. It’s the everything-and-nothing energy from which all things come. Your Higher Self is your personal bridge to Source. It’s your soul in its purest form , untainted by fear, ego, or human distortion. Your Higher Self is you , just on the zoomed-out level —the version of you that remembers the full story, all lifetimes, all lessons, all missions. So: Source is the sun. Your Higher Self is the sunbeam that still holds its essence but is uniquely you . Is Your Higher Self Your Soul? Pretty much— but here's the nuance: Your soul is eternal. It’s the part of you that has lived countless lives. Your Higher Self is like the fully awakened version of your soul —the one not currently squeezed into a human body trying to pay bills and avoid family drama. When you're in human form, you're kind of like the tip of the i...
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Enough is Enough: The "Miracle Package" Epidemic in the Healing/Coaching Space

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By The Artful Woman


It's incredibly frustrating. As someone who's dedicated countless hours to mastering healing modalities and coaching techniques, I'm pouring my energy into helping others. I'm putting myself out there, ready to guide people on their journey. Yet, my inbox is constantly flooded with pitches for "miracle packages" promising overnight success. To be blunt, it feels like wading through a sea of snake oil.

The Problem: Empty Promises and Exorbitant Prices

From $1,500 to $8,000, these self-proclaimed gurus all claim to have the "secret formula" for instant fame, wealth, or whatever else my heart desires. LinkedIn, in particular, has become a virtual used car lot, with aggressive salespeople sliding into my DMs, each insisting they hold the key to unlocking $52,000 in business within 24 hours. The claims are outrageous, and frankly, I'm sick of it.

Why are so many people trying to sell me expensive coaching packages? 
The coaching industry has seen significant growth, leading to an influx of individuals aiming to capitalize on its popularity. Many of these sellers use aggressive marketing tactics, targeting professionals with promises of rapid success. It's crucial to research and verify the credibility of such offers before making any commitments.​
  • How can I discern genuine opportunities from scams?
  • Research the Coach: Look into their background, testimonials, and track record.
  • Beware of High-Pressure Tactics: Authentic professionals won't rush you into decisions.
  • Seek Transparency: Legitimate offers will provide clear information about services and pricing.
  • Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off, it's worth taking a step back and evaluating further.​
What steps can I take to protect myself?
  • Set Clear Boundaries: Don't hesitate to decline unsolicited offers.
  • Join Trusted Communities: Engage with groups or forums where professionals share genuine experiences and recommendations.
  • Invest in Continuous Learning: Equip yourself with knowledge to make informed decisions and recognize red flags.
Why are these "miracle packages" so prevalent? 
Many people are looking for shortcuts to success, and the coaching/healing space attracts those who are eager to build a business quickly. This creates a market for these "get rich quick" schemes. The online business world makes it easy to create and market these packages, even if they lack substance. Fear of missing out (FOMO) and the desire for validation can make people susceptible to these pitches.

Why don't the sellers use their own "secret formula"? 
Often, the formula is exaggerated or simply doesn't work as promised. Selling the formula itself can be more profitable than using it. They might rely on a combination of marketing methods, including the ones they criticize, to reach a wider audience. The "secret" might be effective only in very specific circumstances, or require a level of skill/resources that the buyer doesn't have.

If this message stirred something in you… don’t ignore it.


That’s your soul speaking.

I’m offering a few sessions this month to help women like you reconnect, release, and rise.

Hit reply if you want one — or just want to talk it through. You don’t have to do this alone.

Contact me at Artful Living Coaching 


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