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So… Is Your Higher Self the Same as Source?

By The Artful Woman
  Not exactly. Think of it like this: Source is the origin —pure consciousness, God/Goddess/Divine Light, whatever you want to call it. It’s the everything-and-nothing energy from which all things come. Your Higher Self is your personal bridge to Source. It’s your soul in its purest form , untainted by fear, ego, or human distortion. Your Higher Self is you , just on the zoomed-out level —the version of you that remembers the full story, all lifetimes, all lessons, all missions. So: Source is the sun. Your Higher Self is the sunbeam that still holds its essence but is uniquely you . Is Your Higher Self Your Soul? Pretty much— but here's the nuance: Your soul is eternal. It’s the part of you that has lived countless lives. Your Higher Self is like the fully awakened version of your soul —the one not currently squeezed into a human body trying to pay bills and avoid family drama. When you're in human form, you're kind of like the tip of the i...
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Breaking Free from Bullying: Setting Boundaries, Self-Care, and Empowerment

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By The Artful Woman

For years, I have endured relentless harassment from a neighbor who thrives on intimidation and control. While the legal system has failed to protect me, I have discovered the power of self-care, boundaries, and resilience. This journey has not only strengthened me but has also equipped me with the knowledge and certifications to help others who face similar challenges.

If you are dealing with a toxic individual—a bully, a stalker, or an abuser—you are not alone. You have the power to protect your energy, reclaim your peace, and rise above their attempts to control you. Here’s how:

1. Understanding the Bully’s Mindset

  • It’s not about you. Bullies project their own insecurities, fears, and unresolved traumas onto others. Their need for control and power often stems from deep personal dysfunction.

  • They target those they perceive as vulnerable. Kind, empathetic, and strong individuals are often targeted because their light exposes the bully’s darkness.

  • They thrive on reaction. The more you react emotionally, the more they feed off the energy you provide. Learning to disengage is a powerful tool.

2. The Importance of Boundaries

Setting and enforcing boundaries is one of the most crucial steps in regaining control over your life. Here’s how:

  • Know your limits. Define what is and isn’t acceptable behavior toward you.

  • Be clear and firm. Say “No” with confidence and without justification.

  • Limit contact. If possible, avoid interactions with the bully entirely.

  • Document everything. Keep a record of incidents, including dates, times, and details. This can serve as evidence if legal action is necessary.

3. Protecting Your Energy and Peace

  • Daily self-care rituals. Engage in activities that promote relaxation and positivity, such as meditation, exercise, or journaling.

  • Mindfulness and grounding techniques. Deep breathing, visualization, and Reiki can help clear negative energy.

  • Surround yourself with supportive people. Find friends, coaches, or communities that uplift and encourage you.

  • Energy shielding techniques. Visualization techniques, like imagining a protective bubble around you, can help prevent negative energy from affecting you.

4. Empowering Yourself Through Self-Defense and Resilience

  • Verbal defense strategies. Learn to assert yourself confidently and deflect negativity.

  • Physical self-defense skills. Even basic self-defense training can boost confidence and provide tools for protection.

  • Mental resilience. Train your mind to stay strong despite the bully’s tactics. Focus on self-worth, personal growth, and healing.

5. The Power of Forgiveness (For Yourself, Not for Them)

Forgiveness is not about excusing bad behavior; it is about freeing yourself from the emotional weight of the pain inflicted upon you. By letting go of anger, you take back your power and energy. Wishing the best for your aggressor does not mean condoning their actions—it means choosing peace over bitterness.

6. Turning Your Pain into Purpose

Instead of allowing my experience to break me, I have turned it into fuel for empowerment. I became certified in:

Through these tools, I help others reclaim their power, heal, and set boundaries. If you are struggling with a bully in your life, I want you to know that you are stronger than you think. You can rise above the pain and turn it into power.

Final Thoughts No one deserves to be bullied, harassed, or intimidated. If the legal system fails to protect you, take matters into your own hands—not through revenge, but through empowerment, self-care, and unshakable resilience.

If you need guidance on setting boundaries, self-care, or overcoming bullying, reach out. Together, we can create a strategy that puts your peace and power first. Contact me today at  www.artfullivingcoaching.com


When your vibe is so high, negativity can’t touch you—it just bounces right off. Your frequency is too elevated for that nonsense. You are in control, and that is real power.

Keep your mindset positive, because a positive mind is unstoppable.
No matter who tries to shake you, you are unshakable. No matter who tries to stop you, you are unstoppable. No one—not him, not her, not anyone—gets to pull you out of alignment.


Stand in your power. Own your energy. Keep rising. You’ve got this!














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