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So… Is Your Higher Self the Same as Source?

  Not exactly. Think of it like this: Source is the origin —pure consciousness, God/Goddess/Divine Light, whatever you want to call it. It’s the everything-and-nothing energy from which all things come. Your Higher Self is your personal bridge to Source. It’s your soul in its purest form , untainted by fear, ego, or human distortion. Your Higher Self is you , just on the zoomed-out level —the version of you that remembers the full story, all lifetimes, all lessons, all missions. So: Source is the sun. Your Higher Self is the sunbeam that still holds its essence but is uniquely you . Is Your Higher Self Your Soul? Pretty much— but here's the nuance: Your soul is eternal. It’s the part of you that has lived countless lives. Your Higher Self is like the fully awakened version of your soul —the one not currently squeezed into a human body trying to pay bills and avoid family drama. When you're in human form, you're kind of like the tip of the i...

Why We Crave Junk Food When We're Tired and Inflamed (and What to Do About It)

Why is it that I crave fatty and salty foods and sugar when I'm tired and feeling inflamed? This is a question I've asked myself countless times, especially when my body is aching, I'm sluggish, and all I want is a bag of chips or a chocolate bar. It seems counterintuitive, right? When I'm already feeling less than my best, why would I reach for foods that I know will only make me feel worse? If you've ever found yourself in this same cycle, you're not alone. There's a complex interplay of physiological and psychological factors at play, and understanding these connections is the first step to breaking free from the junk food trap.

It's incredibly common to crave junk food when you're feeling tired, unwell, or experiencing discomfort like swelling and aches. There's a complex interplay of physiological and psychological factors at play:

Physiological Factors:

  • Low Blood Sugar: When you're tired or haven't eaten in a while, your blood sugar levels can drop. This can lead to cravings for quick energy, which junk food provides in the form of simple carbohydrates and sugars. These foods offer a rapid but short-lived boost, followed by an even bigger crash, perpetuating the cycle.
  • Hormonal Changes: Stress, fatigue, and even pain can trigger the release of cortisol, a stress hormone. Cortisol can increase cravings for sugary, fatty, and salty foods. These foods can activate the brain's reward system, providing a temporary sense of pleasure and comfort.
  • Inflammation: Some research suggests that inflammation in the body can contribute to cravings. Processed foods, often high in sugar and unhealthy fats, can actually exacerbate inflammation, creating a vicious cycle. When your body is already feeling inflamed (as with swelling and aches), you might crave foods that worsen the problem, even though they seem appealing in the moment.
  • Dehydration: Sometimes, what we perceive as hunger or cravings is actually thirst. Dehydration can lead to fatigue and other symptoms that mimic the need for food. Craving salty snacks could also be a sign your body needs electrolytes, which are often depleted when dehydrated.

Psychological Factors:

  • Emotional Eating: Food can be a source of comfort and a way to cope with negative emotions like stress, sadness, or boredom. When you're not feeling your best, you might turn to junk food as a way to self-soothe.
  • Reward System: Junk food triggers the release of dopamine in the brain, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward. This can create a cycle of craving and consumption, making it harder to resist these foods even when you know they're not good for you.
  • Habit and Conditioning: If you're used to reaching for junk food when you're feeling down, it can become an automatic response. Your brain has learned to associate these foods with comfort, making them even more appealing when you're not feeling well.
  • Distraction: Sometimes, cravings are a form of distraction. When you're experiencing discomfort or negative emotions, eating junk food can provide a temporary escape from those feelings.

Breaking the Cycle:

It's important to recognize these patterns and develop healthier coping mechanisms. Here are some strategies that might help:

  • Prioritize Sleep: Getting enough sleep is crucial for regulating hormones, blood sugar, and overall well-being.
  • Manage Stress: Practice stress-reducing techniques like meditation, deep breathing, or yoga.
  • Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water throughout the day.
  • Eat Regular Meals: Don't skip meals, as this can lead to blood sugar crashes and cravings. Focus on nutrient-dense foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein.
  • Find Healthy Alternatives: Identify healthier snacks that satisfy your cravings. For example, if you crave something sweet, try fruit or a small amount of dark chocolate. If you crave something salty, try nuts or roasted vegetables.
  • Listen to Your Body: Pay attention to your hunger cues and eat when you're truly hungry, not just when you're feeling tired or emotional.
  • Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Everyone has cravings from time to time. If you slip up, don't beat yourself up about it. Just get back on track with your healthy eating habits.
  • Seek Professional Help: If you're struggling with emotional eating or have concerns about your eating habits, consider seeking help from a therapist or registered dietitian.

It takes time and effort to change these patterns, but it's possible to break the cycle of craving junk food when you're not feeling your best. By understanding the underlying reasons for these cravings and implementing healthy strategies, you can take control of your eating habits and improve your overall well-being.

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