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So… Is Your Higher Self the Same as Source?

  Not exactly. Think of it like this: Source is the origin —pure consciousness, God/Goddess/Divine Light, whatever you want to call it. It’s the everything-and-nothing energy from which all things come. Your Higher Self is your personal bridge to Source. It’s your soul in its purest form , untainted by fear, ego, or human distortion. Your Higher Self is you , just on the zoomed-out level —the version of you that remembers the full story, all lifetimes, all lessons, all missions. So: Source is the sun. Your Higher Self is the sunbeam that still holds its essence but is uniquely you . Is Your Higher Self Your Soul? Pretty much— but here's the nuance: Your soul is eternal. It’s the part of you that has lived countless lives. Your Higher Self is like the fully awakened version of your soul —the one not currently squeezed into a human body trying to pay bills and avoid family drama. When you're in human form, you're kind of like the tip of the i...

The Reticular Activating System: Your Brain’s Gatekeeper and Its Role in Stress and Anxiety

Have you ever noticed how once you start thinking about buying a certain car, you suddenly see it everywhere? Or how a single negative thought can spiral into a whole cascade of worries? That’s your Reticular Activating System (RAS) at work. The RAS is a powerful network of neurons in the brainstem responsible for filtering sensory information, regulating alertness, and influencing our focus. But beyond helping us pay attention, it also plays a key role in stress, anxiety, and emotional regulation. Understanding how it works can help us manage our thoughts, emotions, and overall well-being.

What is the Reticular Activating System (RAS)?

The RAS is essentially your brain’s filter. Every second, your senses take in massive amounts of information, but your brain can only process a fraction of it. The RAS determines which stimuli are important and which can be ignored. It keeps you alert when necessary and helps transition between wakefulness and sleep.

Here are its key functions:

  • Regulating Wakefulness and Sleep: The RAS controls transitions between being awake and asleep, ensuring that you wake up in response to relevant stimuli (like an alarm clock) while filtering out unimportant noise.

  • Filtering Sensory Input: It determines what information reaches your conscious mind, ensuring that your attention is directed toward what’s most relevant.

  • Enhancing Focus and Attention: By prioritizing certain stimuli, the RAS helps you concentrate on tasks and ignore distractions.

  • Affecting Emotional and Physiological Responses: The RAS is involved in the body's arousal system and can influence how we react emotionally to situations, particularly in stress-inducing scenarios.

The RAS and Its Connection to Thoughts and Emotions

Your RAS isn’t just a passive filter—it actively influences how you experience the world. Here’s how it connects to thoughts, emotions, and mental health:

  1. Selective Attention & Thought Patterns:

    • The RAS brings to your attention what aligns with your thoughts and beliefs. If you consistently think about positive goals, it helps you notice opportunities. Conversely, if you focus on fears or anxieties, it makes you hyper-aware of threats.

  2. Emotional Regulation:

    • The RAS is connected to the limbic system, particularly the amygdala, which processes emotions like fear and anxiety. This connection means that your emotional state can influence what your RAS prioritizes, reinforcing certain emotional patterns.

  3. Stress and Hyperarousal:

    • When stressed, the RAS can become overactive, making you hyper-alert and reactive to potential dangers. Chronic stress can put the RAS in a state of constant overdrive, leading to heightened anxiety, difficulty relaxing, and sleep disturbances.

How to Hack Your RAS to Reduce Stress and Anxiety

Because the RAS responds to what we focus on, we can consciously train it to work in our favor. Here are some strategies:

  • Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness helps train your RAS to focus on the present moment, reducing anxiety and intrusive thoughts.

  • Positive Affirmations: Repeating positive affirmations programs your RAS to notice and prioritize uplifting and constructive thoughts.

  • Visualization: When you visualize success or a desired outcome, your RAS helps you notice related opportunities and resources in real life.

  • Journaling & Gratitude Practices: Writing down positive experiences or things you're grateful for shifts your focus, training your RAS to filter for positivity.

  • Reducing Negative Inputs: Limiting exposure to negativity (news, toxic environments, etc.) helps prevent the RAS from filtering in stress-inducing stimuli.

Your Reticular Activating System is a powerful tool that shapes your daily experiences. It determines what you notice, how you react to stress, and how you process emotions. By understanding its role, you can take steps to train it in ways that support mental clarity, reduced anxiety, and a healthier, more focused mind. Are you looking for a way to manage stress, increase focus, and break free from negative thought patterns? Hypnotherapy can help you tap into your subconscious mind to create lasting positive changes. It’s a safe, effective tool for those wanting to feel more calm, clear-headed, and in control. I am a certified hypnotherapist and mindset coach. 

Unlock your potential. Contact me and break free from negative thought patterns. Transform your inner dialogue and achieve your dreams. Learn more about mindset coaching, take the first step. Schedule your consultation. Artful Living Coaching 


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