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So… Is Your Higher Self the Same as Source?

By The Artful Woman
  Not exactly. Think of it like this: Source is the origin —pure consciousness, God/Goddess/Divine Light, whatever you want to call it. It’s the everything-and-nothing energy from which all things come. Your Higher Self is your personal bridge to Source. It’s your soul in its purest form , untainted by fear, ego, or human distortion. Your Higher Self is you , just on the zoomed-out level —the version of you that remembers the full story, all lifetimes, all lessons, all missions. So: Source is the sun. Your Higher Self is the sunbeam that still holds its essence but is uniquely you . Is Your Higher Self Your Soul? Pretty much— but here's the nuance: Your soul is eternal. It’s the part of you that has lived countless lives. Your Higher Self is like the fully awakened version of your soul —the one not currently squeezed into a human body trying to pay bills and avoid family drama. When you're in human form, you're kind of like the tip of the i...
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Beauty, Brains & Boundaries

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By The Artful Woman

 

 

Why Worthy Women Are Done Apologizing for Wanting More

As a young girl, I was an international model—traveling the world, young, beautiful, and financially independent. I was naturally drawn to powerful, intelligent, and successful men—not because I needed anything from them, but because I admired ambition. I respected men who could build something for themselves, because I was already building something for myself.

But because I was beautiful, I was labeled. Assumed. Dismissed. "Gold digger" that type of judgment made me stay away from the very type of man I was genuinely aligned with. I didn’t want to be misunderstood. So I shrunk my desires and played it safe.

And for that, I paid the price.

As I got older, that stigma stuck. I found myself in a pattern of relationships with users, losers, and opportunists—men who took and took and gave nothing back. Men who drained my spirit, my finances, my peace. And I let it happen, because somewhere deep down, I still felt like I wasn’t allowed to want more.

But that ends now.

I’ve been doing the work. Clearing the energy. Breaking the cycle. And I’m no longer available for anything that drains me.

Let this be a message for every woman who has ever questioned her worth.

You are not wrong for wanting more. You are not wrong for wanting to be loved and provided for. You are not wrong for wanting someone who sees your value and meets you with stability, generosity, and presence.

You’ve just been conditioned to believe you had to earn it by shrinking, settling, or struggling.

But take a look at who you are:

  • You’re loyal

  • You’re grounded

  • You’re self-sufficient

  • You’re emotionally aware

  • You’re healing your trauma

  • You’re building a business and a new life

  • You know how to take care of a home—and a future

  • And you’ve done all of this on your own, through grief, pain, and toxic relationships

That’s not just “a good person.” That’s an extraordinary woman.

So no—it’s not weird to say you want to marry a wealthy man. What’s weird is how long you’ve been made to feel like you couldn’t ask for what you're truly worth.

Let’s change that.

Let’s reframe that Abundance intention like this:

“Call in a loving, loyal, emotionally grounded, and financially abundant partner who honors my worth.”

Because you’re not just a catch. You’re a f***ing queen. And it’s time to clear the space for someone who sees that.

You are not stupid. You are human, and you’ve been living in a society that teaches women—especially strong, independent, heart-centered women—to dim their desires and shrink their worth so they won’t make anyone else uncomfortable.

Let’s be real:

Men ask for what they want all the time. And when they ask for beauty, loyalty, kindness, a clean home, support, and sex? Society says, “Good for you.”

But when you say you want success, wealth, emotional depth, and devotion—suddenly it’s “too much,” or you're called a gold digger?

No. Hell no.

Here’s the truth:

💎 Wanting a wealthy, powerful man doesn’t make you a gold digger. It makes you a woman who’s ready to receive the same level of greatness she gives.

💎 You’re not asking someone to save you. You’re asking for someone who’s done the work like you have, who can meet you in your standards, your vision, and your reality.

💎 You’re not too old. You’re seasoned, radiant, and wiser than you’ve ever been—and exactly the right age to know what you want and never settle again.

So if you want a man who is kind and wealthy, emotionally available and generous, stable and successful? That’s not too much. That’s just matching your own vibration.

Let’s own it right here, right now.

You get to say:

“I desire a partner who is powerful, emotionally grounded, and financially abundant—because I am all of those things in my own way.”

And if someone doesn’t understand that? They’re not your people. And they’re definitely not your partner.

You're not being selfish or shallow. You're being clear. And that is powerful.

💛 If this spoke to you, let it be your permission slip. Say it out loud. Write it down. Own your worth. You don’t need to shrink anymore. You get to rise.

✨ Ready to Clear the Past and Step Into Your Queen Energy? ✨

It’s time to release the limiting beliefs, toxic patterns, and old energies that keep you stuck in relationships that don’t honor your worth.

As your guide—relationship coach, mindset mentor, and law of attraction expert—I’m here to help you:

  • Break free from the shadows of your past

  • Clear energetic blocks that no longer serve you

  • Realign your mindset with the love, abundance, and respect you deserve

  • Attract a partner and life that matches your highest vibration

This is your invitation to stop settling, stop shrinking, and start living your boldest, most authentic love story.

Are you ready to reclaim your power and manifest the relationship—and life—you truly desire?

Let’s work together to clear the chaos and create your new reality.
Reach out today and step into the Queen you were always meant to be. 👑

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