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So… Is Your Higher Self the Same as Source?

By The Artful Woman
  Not exactly. Think of it like this: Source is the origin —pure consciousness, God/Goddess/Divine Light, whatever you want to call it. It’s the everything-and-nothing energy from which all things come. Your Higher Self is your personal bridge to Source. It’s your soul in its purest form , untainted by fear, ego, or human distortion. Your Higher Self is you , just on the zoomed-out level —the version of you that remembers the full story, all lifetimes, all lessons, all missions. So: Source is the sun. Your Higher Self is the sunbeam that still holds its essence but is uniquely you . Is Your Higher Self Your Soul? Pretty much— but here's the nuance: Your soul is eternal. It’s the part of you that has lived countless lives. Your Higher Self is like the fully awakened version of your soul —the one not currently squeezed into a human body trying to pay bills and avoid family drama. When you're in human form, you're kind of like the tip of the i...
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Turning Off the TV, Turning On My Life

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By The Artful Woman


Over the past year, I’ve embarked on a personal journey of research, personal development, and education—a path that has profoundly deepened my quest for knowledge. Looking back, I realized I had fallen into a habit of spending my downtime sprawled on the couch, watching TV. After my stroke, this routine felt necessary; I needed to rest and recover. But as I began to heal, I started questioning whether this was the life I wanted: endless hours spent in front of "the boob tube."

As I regained strength, I made a significant decision: I got rid of my couch. Initially, my boyfriend at the time brought me another couch, which, while beautiful, was uncomfortably firm. I thought perhaps a smaller couch would solve the issue, but it too was uncomfortable. My goal was to disrupt my pattern and make it to where I wouldn't fall into the same routine. Finally, I decided to eliminate couches altogether. Now, my living room features a daybed—a practical solution that doubles as a guest bed since I don’t have a spare room. Physiologically, it worked; I don't like laying in bed during the day. This change also disrupted my old habit of falling asleep on the couch, only to wake up in the middle of the night and struggle to fall asleep again after relocating to my bedroom. To further support my lifestyle shift, I added a TV into my bedroom. Now, I only watch TV when it's time to go to bed.

Since then, I’ve swapped TV time for learning time, especially after Thanksgiving, when I invested in a series of online courses during Black Friday sales. These courses focus on certified coaching across a variety of topics, and I bought even more after Christmas. With New Year’s approaching, I’m excited to explore additional offerings. My Audible library has also expanded significantly with masterclasses that inspire and educate me. I’ve essentially transformed my home—living room and bedroom alike—into a personal online learning university. This shift has invigorated me, filling my days with purposeful activity instead of the mindless consumption that once left me feeling stagnant.

Reflecting on my past TV habits, I realized that much of what I watched—particularly reality shows like those on Bravo TV—contributed little to my growth. I also came to understand that excessive TV watching can be an energy drain. Passively consuming content for long hours often left me feeling mentally and physically lethargic. Negative or toxic shows further depleted my emotional energy, creating a cycle of stagnation. Shows like The Real Housewives were once an obsession, but I grew to resent their negativity and toxicity. The characters often tear each other down, promoting conflict and animosity. This behavior, I noticed, was seeping into my own mindset and attracting similar negativity into my life. Watching such shows didn’t align with my values or my desire to glorify God. However, TV isn’t inherently bad—it depends on the content and how you engage with it. Thought-provoking documentaries, educational programs, or inspiring stories can enrich your mind and even energize you. Setting boundaries, like only watching TV during specific times or for specific purposes, can help you avoid its potential to drain energy and instead align your viewing habits with your goals. To anyone wanting to make a similar change, I suggest taking small steps to reduce screen time. Start by identifying the types of content that uplift or educate you and limiting exposure to shows that promote negativity. Set boundaries, like designating specific times for watching TV, and replace idle viewing with activities that enrich your mind or body. For me, turning off the TV and focusing on learning has been a life-changing decision.

Since diving into my courses, I feel like I’ve discovered a new way of living. Online learning is a game-changer—no need to commute to a campus, search for parking, or navigate large lecture halls. I can sit comfortably at home and absorb knowledge at my own pace. All in all, this transformation has been profoundly rewarding. I’ve reclaimed my time and redirected it toward something meaningful—a journey of continuous learning and self-improvement. It feels like a fresh start, and I’m excited for what’s to come.


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