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Help Me Stay Housed While Recovering From a Life-Changing Accident

By The Artful Woman
  Help Me Stay Housed While Recovering From a Life-Changing Accident On September 6th, my life changed in an instant when a driver crossed into my lane on Ortega Highway and hit me head-on. My car was thrown into the air and I nearly lost my life. My vehicle was completely totaled. I spent four months in the hospital. The first part was in a trauma unit where I was placed in an induced coma and underwent multiple life-saving surgeries. I was then transferred to an acute care facility where I required critical support, including IVs, a tracheostomy, a feeding tube, and dialysis. My injuries included: Loss of my right leg Six broken ribs and two vertebrae Broken pelvis, right arm, and wrist Multiple fractures in my left leg Kidney and heart failure from trauma Many of my injuries required surgical repair with metal hardware that I am still healing from After returning home, my focus has been recovery. I’ve faced infections, complications, and delayed healing that hav...
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Not all disabilities are visible. A Hidden Fight

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By The Artful Woman

My journey as a stroke survivor has been marked by a silent struggle. While I may appear healthy on the outside, a constant battle rages within. Neuro fatigue, body aches, and forced rest days are realities I manage, learning to listen to my body's limits to avoid setbacks.

Despite these challenges, the future looks bright. Turning 60 feels surreal, not strange – a reminder of how much I've overcome. Unlike many my age, I haven't given up. The stroke forced me to work harder, regaining coordination and learning to manage dizziness and vertigo. Each hurdle has made me stronger and more resilient.

I'm excited for what the future holds. This journey has been a scary one, but a valuable one. Sharing my story allows me to connect with others who may be facing similar invisible struggles, inspiring them to face their challenges with courage and hope.

The Invisible Scars

The true depth of my suffering, both physical and emotional, may never be fully understood. The fear, anguish, and mental challenges were invisible to the outside world. People saw a seemingly normal person, unaware of the internal suffering I endured.

Many disabilities are hidden, leaving others confused when you express your struggles. They simply can't grasp the unseen battles you've fought and the inner strength you've summoned. The scars I bear are invisible, yet they mark a profound journey – a testament to the silent battles I fought and victories I won, all by myself and alone. Only God and my Lucky dog were there.







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